Well let me start this by saying that this is gonna be pretty long cuz I feel you only get 1 chance to truly find what you want and I am honest, so if ur interested in me as a person, then keep reading. If not, then good luck in your search. I am someone who is pretty much looking for the male version of me...haha :0) - Not too sure if that exists, but willing to give it a shot! I am looking for someone who likes long walks on the beach at night, candlelite dinners, loves thunderstorms and lightning to where we can open the doors or windows just to watch them while laying on a blanket together in the dark. I love to cook and would love to find someone who loves to cook for me as well. I want the guy who brings home flowers "just because", not because it is a holiday..Definitely long for the guy where when we have an argument, to get it resolved just so I can get back to being with him and holding his hand..Making up is so the best part and worth it all in the long run! Someone who is a good listener, has a great sense of humor, loves sports, is not shallow and self-centered and is not into himself. Someone who is proud to show me off to his friends, makes me feel important, knows how to treat me, but also makes me feel like I am the only person that exists. Someone who is not only willing to give, but take, but give more freely of themselves. I consider myself to be a pretty independent person, so the person that I am with is going to have to understand that I am used to doing things on my own, but feel free to take over and be my king..:P I definitely can be sensitive and emotional and most of the time I do wear not only my heart on my sleeve, but also my emotions! I am someone who likes to be spoiled, loves surprises and I am a hopeless romantic. I like heat, passion and seduction. The more the better!! I truly believe that that is important!! I long for the butterflies and the feelings that come with it. I can be pretty aggressive at times when the moment produces itself, especially when I am into someone physically. The chemistry definitely has to be there, along with everything else which I feel will fall into place. For me as a person, it is not what's on the outside that counts, but the inside. I have learned that over the years and that going with my instincts has never steered me wrong. I want someone who is loyal, giving, honest and who can have a civil conversation and can handle corrective criticism. Someone who is not afraid to show themselves and what truly matters. I am not into games, or drama, so please keep it at the theater. Of course, everyone has problems and issues, but I want a person who gives more of himself and who doesn't run when the going gets tough!! I am one of those people that speaks their mind and does not sugar coat anything. I am very open and honest and I want someone who will be the same with me. I am someone who is very bubbly, free-spirited, open, honest, loyal and above all faithful to whoever I am with and I expect nothing less from the other person. I refuse to settle for anything less!! Less than I deserve! I am looking for someone who is fun, outgoing, not afraid to take risks and doesn't take things seriously all the time. You only live once and I am learning to not sweat the small stuff. I will definitely keep you on your toes!!